Let’s skip the small talk,
I’ll go first
Sharing the unvarnished stories of my life,
the ones that don’t come up in surface level conversations.
Written so you know you’re not the only one.

I’m Shannon
I’ve spent most of my life outside of what you’d imagine behind a white picket fence, meaning I’ve spent more time in the muck of life than I was ever prepared for. I know how hard & lonely it can feel to look up and not see your reality reflected back to you in the lives of those around you.
I now feel the need to share my stories, hoping you’ll find your way here and be comforted in knowing – you’re not the only one.
What You’ll Find Here
Life outside the
white picket fence
Childhood, marriage, and life experiences that never quite fit traditional design
healing without
the neat bows
No advice or tidy endings, just healing as it really happens: slow and always a work in progress
I write like the windows are open & the door’s unlocked
Think of it as coffee at my kitchen table.
Check your spam folder to confirm your letters!
start where you are
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When your reality feels like it has no place at the picnic table
If you’ve ever sat at a table and found no place for your life in the conversation
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The thousand small choices
If your marriage ended and took your sense of self with it
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I Didn’t Go to the Hospital. I’m Not Sorry.
If you love someone making choices that terrify you
Currently

Currently
listening to
Mother hunger
on Audible.

Currently
keeping
Sunday evenings for myself; mood lighting, my journal and whatever I’m working through that week.

Currently
trying
To get back into my exercise & lifting routine, one workout at a time.

